It’s no secret that cigar smokers, in general, are a friendly lot. Discovering another cigar enthusiast in a crowd can turn a chance meeting into an enjoyable conversation. Sometimes, running into fellow smokers when you least expect it can be the start of a memorable evening.
Recently, we attended a barbecue fundraiser for a local private school. The event was held at a supporter’s farm and included an open bar, a catered meal, hayrides, and a bonfire. As we were leaving the house, I decided to grab a couple of cigars to take along, just in case.
While enjoying cocktails before dinner, I noticed a gentleman arrive carrying a distinctive black cigar travel case. I approached him and asked if he’d brought cigars. He confirmed that he had, and we chatted for a few minutes. It looked as though I’d have an opportunity to smoke later in the evening.
During dinner, I was talking with another guest at the table when he mentioned that his brother, sitting at a nearby table, was also a dedicated cigar smoker. Apparently, his brother had been pressing him to include a smoking room in the house he was building. It seemed I was in good company.
After dinner, as the sun set, the bonfire was lit. Before long, my new acquaintance and I were standing outside enjoying our cigars. Soon, four or five other guys joined us, all looking to enjoy a smoke as well.
It turned out that the gentleman was well-known among his friends as the cigar guy. He apparently brings cigars to many of the school’s events and generously shares them with others. Had I known all this in advance, I would surely have brought more cigars to share. As it was, I did have something useful to contribute. Someone was having trouble with his lighter, so I was able to provide fire for several of the group.
The unexpected gathering added to what was already an enjoyable evening. The conversation naturally included cigars, but it ranged well beyond our shared hobby. We talked about airplanes, travel, retirement, farming, careers, and a variety of other subjects. Before long, we were doing what people seem to do whenever a group gets together over a few drinks and a common interest: solving the world’s problems.
Most of my cigar smoking is done alone. There’s a particular pleasure in settling into a chair with a good cigar and a drink, enjoying some quiet time without much of an agenda. Other times, I smoke at places where meeting fellow enthusiasts is part of the plan, whether at a cigar lounge or a bourbon and cigar event.
But there’s something special about these unexpected gatherings. You arrive at an event with no particular expectations beyond enjoying the evening, and a chance encounter leads to an entirely different experience. The cigar provides an easy introduction, but the conversation and camaraderie are what make the occasion memorable.
I went to a school fundraiser, brought along a couple of cigars just in case, and wound up spending part of the evening with a group of fellow enthusiasts I hadn’t known that afternoon. It’s a reminder that some of the most enjoyable experiences aren’t the ones we plan. Sometimes, all it takes is a little tobacco, a light, and a willingness to strike up a conversation.
Cheers!
